Hey guys. I know I don’t post personal messages often (I have gone dark, so to say) and I don’t really use social media anymore for my personal updates, but I wanted to share some important “announcements” or the Fabian story continued! This is going to be a long post, but I appreciate you reading this. If you can’t be bothered to read the entire Fabian manifesto post, the 4 key takeaways are as follows:
1. I am doing excellent. Just came back from Cancun, Mexico and thriving/recharged. I would love to reconnect with many of you and start having more conversations. Comment/msg me!
2. Starting a podcast – launching April 24th. The basic premise is sharing my passion “topic” due to it being so personal: the things that me and my co-hosts have done that have been the most life-changing self-improvements/realizations/self-reflection/decisions to lead us to where we are today. If you have noticed I have changed significantly and accomplished things in the last 7-8 years, you’ll hear the secrets or the “great reveal” as to how now that I have overcome my inner demons! You can too. Feeling free to be you and having 100% self-esteem is a game changer.
3. Check out the website home page: https://chaminger.com & follow and subscribe to all the social medias and podcast directory that you use most!
4. Giveaway Alert until April 24th! EVERYONE STARTS FROM ZERO! Help us grow and get exposure! Enter the giveaway for an Amazon Gift Card celebrating our podcast launch: https://gleam.io/r9UMX/chaminger-podcast-launch-giveaway
Meat & Potatoes Big update:
Life is great. I am happy. I am doing extremely well. Apologize to anyone I made feel like a stranger, but within the last 3 years and with COVID I realized more than ever that I had to do an audit on my life and immediate network. I was a notorious oversharer and people pleaser yet very few people really knew me because I was so inherently private in some ways due to my past traumas. There were lots of assumptions and misunderstandings of who I am and my intentions. But I also learned over the years that people have to EARN access to who I really am. Let’s actually build a friendship and you will get to know me and my life – this means a real, authentic relationship: genuinely caring about the other person. If you can’t do this, you don’t get to know what’s going on in my life. More people should learn from this.
Every year when I do my update I am a very different and improved person. It’s called doing rather than talking or complaining. Are you still in the same place that you were 5 years ago? 1 year is a long time to change. I live and embody that now. Many people are going to be surprised at who I am now, what I am doing and what I am capable of. There will be doubters and confused people. But the fact is they never knew me or spent the time getting to truly know me (just ask and have a real convo with someone…crazy how that actually works!) People assume and I was “damaged” to the point I didn’t feel I could share the truth.
A lot has changed and I have accomplished a lot, yet I am only beginning. Most people aren’t aware of my life as is. My inner circle knows. But my acquaintances and social media don’t. Why should they? Why give access and my attention for free? Many people will think I/we can’t do it, but that doesn’t matter. I know I can. I believe I can. And I will. I feel empathy toward doubters.
What is going down?
Starting the Chaminger journey. A podcast and brand. I want people to not go through the same issues and anxiety I did throughout my life. Especially due to COVID forcing people to adapt and change. I want to prevent stress, depression, anxiety and issues causing insecurity/caring too much what others think preventing them from being happy. Teach people adaptability!
Why I am doing this?
I traveled and moved every few years growing up. Always lost people – friends and potential relationships. Became only close to family. Was always the weirdo in every new place I moved to. Became insecure, but became a pro at “befriending” people. Was slightly overweight in the past. Had to use glasses even though I hated being reliant on them. Affected my image of me. Had problems attaching and commiting and being vulnerable with people. Never found my passion, so was always “bored”/not motivated. Had many issues, but lacked major self-esteem/self-awareness – thus happiness. Fixed my issues and now became so much more successful and my dreams came true…quite easily in fact. I want you guys to be able to overcome anything holding you back and grow. For some this might be common knowledge, but I guarantee this will resonate with many of you.
Being aware that you can think a different way than you were raised and have a different perspective is a game changer. Didn’t realize it was OK to think differently or be different. Thought I had to fit in. Instead uniqueness and quirks are what make you you and amazing. Confidence is embracing and loving you. Also once you truly realize how other people are doing in comparison (not their instagram highlight reel)…you will see that you are probably waaay better than you think you are. Give yourself permission to change/grow. But I want to help people because my life is 1000% better now because of these realizations + many more that you can listen or watch on the podcast!
So what’s next?
Do things for you. Don’t tell people. Just do. #doitforthestory
Follow the journey to #BecomingXceptional. Looking forward to sharing this adventure with you. Follow all our social medias from our home page: here! Follow our podcast on Apple/Google or Spotify or listen on the website. Enjoy Chaminger: Becoming Xceptional today.